『英语杂谈』 [创作园地]圣诞节，情人节，是那些脚踩几只船的最忙的时候——有感而发

    现在恋爱也像相亲一样讲的多选择，骑驴找马的比比皆是，交往一个，同时和很多人玩暧昧，成了很多人的风格，20－30阶段的人是如此。30出头结了婚的也好不到哪去，照样是。 上个星期写了个小短文，今天粘上来，欢迎大家指正我的写风，有助与我提炼自己的locution
　　
　　When I got a peaceful easy feeling, finding love is just a dance, namely, proximity and chance.
　　The phrase "happy medium" in love affairs refers to the feat of intelligence and character in balancing between extremes (according to the principle of philosophy ,extremes only mean two opposite ends), which means that the two “bargaining” persons meet at the half way by weighing the advantages and disadvantages of their engaging or cohabitation.
　　On the other hand, the case of eclecticism in love affairs, i.e. partly selecting advantages from many counterparts, which resembles the act to separate wheat from chaff, refers to the wants of the competing interests or affections offered by the respectively exclusive candidates for favours.
　　What’s the discrepancy between the two circumstances?
　　The former case is exactly an issue between two persons. And the latter one is almost primarily an issue of only one person who is in the superior position to select spouse.
　　I found out a long time ago that when I was born under the influence of Taurus I can only be pertinacious. So I might not choose the former attitude needing a compromise to dissatisfaction.
　　If only I could turn back the time, I would have inclined to the latter approach which I despised at that time as cheating.
　　
　　I used to envisage the moment on my wedding day, when my dreams of incarnations of my partner all are growing alive, that’s what I wanted for my life.
　　If it hasn’t always been that way, besides endeavour, I can dream I can pray.
　　
　　However, because of a girl from yesterday, the dream had been broken, especially, it wasn’t even whole to start with.
　　I guess that’s just the way the story goes. A boy in his salad days should experience the course of life to ascertain that life is all but diversity.
　　He would be acquainted with many persons of various sets of character and morale.
　　Life is another sort of school. As time goes by, reaching a milestone in my life, I realize that I must hurry up to pass the transitional limen to be a real man, like what the butterfly does from chrysalis to butterfly.
　　And the limen in psychology refers to a period, of which it turns out to be a point if it is short enough, i.e. a speech in chinese 电光石火的一瞬间。

　　沙发自己坐。。。
　　上个星期写了个小短文，今天粘上来，欢迎大家指正我的写风，有助于我提炼自己的locution
　　哎，汉语一个错别字。更正，呵呵。
　　

　　写作就是把被动词汇变成主动词汇的过程。好艰难费事呀。我这篇里面肯定有些问题，比如wants那段，我自己觉得就没表达好。

　　严重支持

　　楼主,偶看不懂你想说什么= =\\\

　　一个是中庸之道 happy medium
　　一个是折衷调和 eclecticism
　　
　　不过有区别
　　
　　前者是好比两个人相亲，最后掂量掂量两个人就凑合将就了。
　　后者是好比有个条件好的女人，在众多追求者中挑呀挑，但是就是不想只挑一个，却想把所有的好都包下来。就像一个典故里的“东家吃西家住”女，鱼和熊掌都想得到。太邪恶。
　　
　　不过这一点上男女是剪刀差。
　　年龄大男的价值往上走，女的往下走。
　　所以男的开始是持前者观念，女的持后者观念。
　　等到过了一个点，就反过来了，男的持后者观念，女的持前者观念了。
　　
　　我现在的阶段恰好在这个点上。哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈。

　　顶！